“Voon Loong Chan learned to ride a bicycle at age 7 on a one-lane dirt road in the village of Temoh, Malaysia, crouching under the crossbar of an adult bike, squeezed between vehicles and a barbed wire fence. The fence kept tigers in the jungle—mostly—but it had failed to protect the village from guerilla soldiers. Voon Loong’s family had already fled for the city of Ipoh, leaving the boy with his uncle.”
Welcome to the celebration of life for Voon Loong / Ricky Chan. I am Kai, Voon Loong’s middle child, his second son, your MC for today.
Let me warn you. Over the course of my remarks before and after the other speakers, I’m going to talk a lot about love.
For years, I didn’t realize that Dad was a lover. My love languages were not a natural fit with his, but now that he’s gone, I can see it clearly.
You’ll hear from six people other than me today. The first two are my younger sister, Soo, and my older brother, Chee.
| Soo, Dad, Chee |
To see Soo with Dad was to see two people who were and always had been in perfect harmony, with few words; she does for us what Dad did for his siblings, and then some.
Chee inherited Dad’s sportsmanship, both his physical prowess at everything he tried, and his infectious play.
Soo Chan Carusone and Chee Chan
Cutting fruit was central for all of us. I was ten when Dad first let me cut a mango. We were at his office in the Fitzgerald Building basement. It was badly overripe, and all he had was a short, flimsy plastic knife. I could see him size it up, and turn up his nose. He offered for me to try. I held the fruit in my left hand, and started at the stem, just as I had seen him done hundreds of times. Sawing vigorously to penetrate the loose skin, I somehow managed to render it into a single long ribbon, and then scalloped the pieces onto the small paper plate. I can still feel the fruit oozing in my hand, the sticky juice dripping down my wrist. Dad looked over and said, “Hmmph. Not bad.” And from that point on, he let me cut fruit for the family.
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| Soo, Dad, Chee and I |
It wasn’t the first or last time he extended trust so I could learn. Even after I totalled the family car, he and Mum got me right back behind the wheel.
Cutting and serving fruit is an act of unconditional love, for plants and for Dad. A plant is nourishing animals whose ancestors carried their ancestors as seeds. By cutting fruit in beautiful pieces and serving them equally, Dad told people they mattered.
One thing about having a highly accomplished father or grandfather is that not everyone felt equally loved all the time. With the passage of time, I have become convinced that this was more about us than him. He believed in each of us fiercely, and wanted us to follow our passions and fulfill our potential. He kept learning new love languages. How many 80-year old men learn to use the heart emoji, and use it liberally?
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| Dad (bottom right) beside Michael Smith (centre) with the Smith Lab |
The heart and soul of Dad’s work as a professor at U of T was his lab group. Water balloons, egg tosses, and rockets at Centre Island fused them in my young mind as a group of smart, fun people who enjoyed being together. They were invited into our family, and they treated the three of us kids like people who mattered. Of the many people that Dad touched, no one is better poised to represent his academic life than David Ng, Director of Genetic Access Tools and Associate Research Scientist at Columbia's Zuckerman Institute.
David Ng
One life lesson Dad was firm on was to stay connected to my teachers, professors, and mentors. He said, “You never know when they might be able to help you.” It never felt like the real reason. Years later, I realized he was also speaking as a mentor: he wanted to keep helping people. Over the years, he told us about many work or sports friends and how they were doing. For a good number of them, their own families barely visited. But he did.
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| Dad (right front at the table) with several of his siblings and their spouses, plus Chee Leng (right) and me |
Dad was proudly a middle sibling in a big family of six boys and six girls. He loved his siblings and their spouses and children, calling them often, and spending months each year in Malaysia after he retired. Today, we are missing our beloved aunts and uncles: Yow Chair, Anna, Irene, Alfred, Voon Choong, Sau Lin, Sau Ching, and Sau Mei. Remember his mother’s brother, who took him in at age 7? Dad did. We hosted cousin after cousin in our house for months or even four or five years of their schooling: Yong Ming, Susee, Jerome, and Chee Leng. In the process, they became part of the family. Chee Leng has come from Hong Kong to say a few words.
Chee Leng Yeoh
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| Dad (2nd from right) with host Sau Ching (right) and others |
It was with our Malaysian family that I first felt Dad’s broader weaving of relationships. It was easy to take for granted our little family of five. In Malaysia, the bonds that Dad had forged extended to include us, too. Countless relatives and friends took us in and showered us with food and love. My daughters were floored by this, too, when Dad, Mum and I finally took them to Malaysia and Singapore. Chee Leng’s family, my Auntie Sau Ching and Uncle Yeoh, were our superlative hosts. We will always be grateful that Dad’s family made us their family too.
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| Dad receiving a trophy. He was captain of his state basketball team in Malaysia. |
I wrote the Lives Lived article I quoted from in TGAM as a gift to Dad. I had realized that after 50 years, I had never properly ‘got’ him. I wanted to honour all that he had given me, some of which I hadn’t properly appreciated while he lived. The author guidelines asked for foibles and flaws. But it felt like betrayal. The editor pushed it again. “No one is perfect,” she said. “Tell me one thing that drove you crazy.” His bragging drove me crazy, but I sweated it. In the still of night, finally something clicked. I could help people understand and appreciate how that seven-year old made his way in the world, how he sought to be seen. I wrote: “That said, he liked to tell people how often he won. Surely they wanted to know?”
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| Dad (bottom right) with pickleball friends |
Let’s face it. He had a lot to brag about. Here’s John Cameron, a good friend from Pickleball, founder of the Etobicoke Pickleball Association.
John Cameron
Dad was an exceptional athlete because he worked at it, on and off the court. For squash and pickleball, he taught himself by studying how great players played the game. He went on to win multiple medals at the World Squash Master’s Championships and the US Open Pickleball Championships. Every morning he went through a routine of push-ups and abdominal exercises. At the end of December, 2025, after a morning of go-kart racing, Dad came for a walk with Mum and I. As we walked down a hill, I suddenly saw the slick ice.
| Dad playing soccer with Keegan |
I reached out to Dad, but I was too late. His feet slipped out from him, and whoosh, down he went. I saw it in slow motion as he tucked into a tight hollow body, taking the impact on his bum and rolling back gracefully, keeping his head from whip-lashing back and ensuring he didn’t put down a hand and possibly break a wrist. I thought, here’s an 83-year old that’s ready for the next decade or more. Four months later, he was gone.
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| Mum and Dad with Tiva and Taya |
Dad’s greatest gift to me was the people. Not only the people he loved first, but the ones he helped bring into my life and the ones he taught me how to love. He taught me to parlay sports into friendship and pushed me to attend UTS, where I made lifelong friends.
It all started with his partnership with Mum—the ying to his yang;
the muse, sherpa, and concierge for his adventures;
and his chief of staff and head cheerleader for every goal, dream or pursuit.
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| Mum & Dad (around their wedding) |
The two of them gave me the best brother and sister that I ever could have asked for in Chee and Soo. They weaved in my sister-in-law Noreen and my brother-in-law Tony, and then my nephews and nieces: Keegan, Amaera, Brayden, Teague and Senna. My wife Ljuba and I learned from their example to raise Taya and Tiva. This t-shirt sporting Chan Clan plays together and supports each other. They are true fruit-sharers. Here is Dad’s partner in everything, Penny.
Penny Chan
Dad made friends with my friends, and with their parents. He bonded with our parents-in-law. He spent a lifetime weaving people together.
Looking around this room—and on video—I think many of you have chosen to keep weaving with us. You’re fruit-sharers, too.
(Pause)
For Dad, one final thought: We studied how you played this game.

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